Hey finally i have time to update my blog! Have been quite busy recently because of school activities and homework. Anyway today i'm gonna talk about the relationship problems i've faced and i hope i could help people who are facing the same thing as me!
So i was in a relationship with a boy two years ago, i'm not sure if it was love but i know i really liked him. When i like someone, i get clingy and jealous easily and he didn't like it so we broke up due to personality conflicts. It was hard for me of course, I was so upset after the break up for months. I missed him so much, always thinking about him and overthinking & the worst thing was that he was doing just fine, that's when i realized i didn't mean that much to him and it broke my heart. But girls who are facing the same thing, just move on. If the boy you love doesn't care about you, don't stay because you're just gonna hurt yourself seeing him doing well without you, flirting with other girls and all. Chin up, don't be upset, you can do so much better! You deserve someone who cares for you, doesn't leave you when things get hard, wants you to be happy all the time and loves you for who you are. And i know moving on isn't easy at all but you have to try your very best, i promise better things are coming! in order to move on, always keep yourself occupied and surrounded by things & people that make you happy. If possible, delete pictures and conversations of you guys so that you won't see them and get sad again. Don't ever hurt yourself just because of him, it's not worth it at all because you are so much more than that. Why hurt yourself for someone who doesn't appreciate you? Love yourself before you can be loved and don't be afraid of losing someone who doesn't love you because you deserve better and i hope you know that. You might be worrying that no one else would love you like how he did before but its the past and i'm sure there will be someone out there that's meant for you so don't worry at all, things take time and you just have to be patient and wait. In the meanwhile, work on yourself and change for the better instead of being sad all the time over something you can't change and someone who's not worth your tears. Also, don't ever hate or bad mouth about your ex because at one point he's someone you loved so much and no matter how much he hurt you, just forgive and forget since you can't do much about it instead of holding grudges. Don't hate, but thank him for being a lesson you learnt so much from. Dont get jealous or mad at his new girl too, wish them nothing but the best because it's not her fault anyway. I hope you know your worth and never settle for anything less. If it's meant to be, it will be so just go with the flow and be happy! Single is not bad afterall, don't rush into relationships, only date when you can see a future with that person. This post isn't only for girls actually, guys too! Dont get yourself hurt by someone who doesn't see the good in you or doesnt appreciate your effort, you can do better than this!
I know this is nothing much but i hope it makes you feel better, have a nice day! You are loved, remember that :)
- Jewel G
So i was in a relationship with a boy two years ago, i'm not sure if it was love but i know i really liked him. When i like someone, i get clingy and jealous easily and he didn't like it so we broke up due to personality conflicts. It was hard for me of course, I was so upset after the break up for months. I missed him so much, always thinking about him and overthinking & the worst thing was that he was doing just fine, that's when i realized i didn't mean that much to him and it broke my heart. But girls who are facing the same thing, just move on. If the boy you love doesn't care about you, don't stay because you're just gonna hurt yourself seeing him doing well without you, flirting with other girls and all. Chin up, don't be upset, you can do so much better! You deserve someone who cares for you, doesn't leave you when things get hard, wants you to be happy all the time and loves you for who you are. And i know moving on isn't easy at all but you have to try your very best, i promise better things are coming! in order to move on, always keep yourself occupied and surrounded by things & people that make you happy. If possible, delete pictures and conversations of you guys so that you won't see them and get sad again. Don't ever hurt yourself just because of him, it's not worth it at all because you are so much more than that. Why hurt yourself for someone who doesn't appreciate you? Love yourself before you can be loved and don't be afraid of losing someone who doesn't love you because you deserve better and i hope you know that. You might be worrying that no one else would love you like how he did before but its the past and i'm sure there will be someone out there that's meant for you so don't worry at all, things take time and you just have to be patient and wait. In the meanwhile, work on yourself and change for the better instead of being sad all the time over something you can't change and someone who's not worth your tears. Also, don't ever hate or bad mouth about your ex because at one point he's someone you loved so much and no matter how much he hurt you, just forgive and forget since you can't do much about it instead of holding grudges. Don't hate, but thank him for being a lesson you learnt so much from. Dont get jealous or mad at his new girl too, wish them nothing but the best because it's not her fault anyway. I hope you know your worth and never settle for anything less. If it's meant to be, it will be so just go with the flow and be happy! Single is not bad afterall, don't rush into relationships, only date when you can see a future with that person. This post isn't only for girls actually, guys too! Dont get yourself hurt by someone who doesn't see the good in you or doesnt appreciate your effort, you can do better than this!
I know this is nothing much but i hope it makes you feel better, have a nice day! You are loved, remember that :)
- Jewel G
Glad to see you have moved on, putting the past behind. And now a better and stronger Jewel. Love is bittersweet. I always remember the best part of a relationship, but never dwell upon the saddest part. Hope you too. You definitely worth having a fantastic Mr Right :)
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