He's Just Not That Into You If...

1. He does not make effort to text you

Texting plays an important part in a relationship because it keeps both of you connected when you guys are apart. He should text you or text back whenever he's free or as soon as he gets to use his phone. If you see him on Instagram liking pictures or on twitter tweeting but doesn't text you back, then you know how much you mean to him. Also, he should remember to tell you what's he doing or where he is so that you won't overthink or get worried.

2. He doesn't make plans to see you

You are always the one wanting to see him and the one who's making plans. If you don't say anything then he won't even bother to meet you and that's not how things are supposed to be. He should make an effort to plan dates, even little ones like bringing you out for ice cream or a walk at the park. If someone really likes you, they would always want to spend time with you.

3. He lets you down a lot

Every single time you get so hyped and excited about a date, he ends up canceling on you. Why is that? Is it because you're not important enough to him? Maybe you're not his priority?

He should make an effort to make you feel special and important to him. He should make time for you. No one is too busy, it's just a matter of priorities.

4. He likes the attention other girls give him

Maybe he doesn't flirt back when girls try to hit on him but he entertains them, he does not put an end to the flirting. Even worse, he flirts back and replies texts from the girls and when you found out, he'd tell you they're just friends and he's just fooling around with them, all these excuses but a real man only has eyes for his own lady, other girls shouldn't matter at all to him.

5.  His ego is bigger than anything

After a fight, he doesn't say sorry even when he's at fault. He will just remain silence until you make the first move.

His ego > you.

Why are you always the one trying to mend things even when you did not do anything wrong?

It's not that hard for him to lower his ego for someone he loves right?

6. He doesn't communicate with you

Communication is key. If you're with the right guy, you won't be afraid to put the relationship at risk by bringing up certain things because you know that he will really listen to what you have to say and respect you. Every relationship will have fights and arguments, the only way to emerge from the tough times better and stronger is to work through them together and this starts with open communication.

7. He does not pay attention to you

You told him you are allergic to roses and you love daisies but on Valentine's day he bought you roses. Clearly, he does not pay enough attention to what you say to him.

8. He doesn’t bring you to meet his friends or family

If he doesn't bring you around his family and his friends, then most likely he's not interested in progressing with you.

He should be proud to have you and bring you to meet the people who matter most to him.

9. He tries to change you

He doesn't like your huge thighs, he wants you to go on a diet.

He doesn't like it when you wear heels, he wants you to wear sandals when you're out with him.

He doesn't agree with your plans about your future, he wants you to follow his plans.

Noooo.

He should never try to change you, instead he should love you and everything about you, including your flaws and he should be supportive of the things you do.

10. He makes you wonder

''Where is he now? What is he doing? Is he out with some other girls? Does he text that girl who always comments heart-shape emojis on his pictures?'' All these thoughts running through your head.

If he's into you, he wouldn't leave you wondering, he would always reassure you and make sure you feel alright.

This is a little bit of my thoughts I've been wanting to share with you all, thank you for reading! ♡